“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If you do not remain in me, you are like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned.
John 15:5-6 NIV
Ever sit back and realize that you’re attempt at abiding in the Word and in God has failed and your fruit while its hanging from the vine its got a bitter taste and a weakened aroma. Yeah some days I’m that mom. I’m that wife, that friend, that daughter, that sister; I’m that Christian. Continue reading →
Ever wonder what in the world you could do to make you day flow better. I know I have! I wonder how can I not be in a rush with my kids, how can I stay on top of the endless mountain of laundry, how can I manage to get a few moments of quiet before the beautiful hustle and bustle of life gets going. The answer is simple but it requires discipline and a willingness to push yourself. The answer lies in an age old saying… Continue reading →
School starts tomorrow and I can’t say that I’m not a bit excited. I love the no routine of summer, late night movies, morning snuggles, and spontaneous day trips, but, there is a nice element of the fall back to school routine.
That said tonight, the night before school starts we are heading to church for Royal Rangers. Some people would disagree with a school night activity right about now but I think there’s no place better the night before putting them back in the hands of the public school.
You see they will be at school more of their awake hours then they will be at home in a lot of cases. They will be around all sorts of kids who are raised all sorts of ways. I can’t control that in school or when they are grown and enter the real world.
What I can do is prepare them, provide opportunities for them to renew their minds, and surround them with Godly influence when I am with them. Its my choice to make, my responsibility. I do t know what tomorrow holds for them but I will know that their hearts are full of the love God and that He will be with them as they conquer the first day of school.
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6
We all know how hard it is to hold a thought, especially when you’re eight and you need to an answer to what seems like the world’s most important question, and you need it right now. With a house full of boys, four to be exact (not counting my husband), getting heard can be a difficult feat. Add the fact that you have a ministry driven set of parents who are constantly involved in whatever has caused the church doors to open, and you have a case of interruptions waiting to happen.
Recently I took a stab at rethinking this ongoing issue. I started using a signal with my oldest, the eight year old who’s going on twenty five, so that I would not forget that he is patiently, and quietly waiting for a chance to have the floor. When he wants my attention, in the middle of a conversation, he simply puts his hand on my shoulder and waits. To me it’s a signal that he needs to say something but for him it’s an opportunity to be heard. The best part is, it is working fantastically! It doesn’t mean there’s never an interruption but they have become much more controlled, and the younger boys are picking up on it too!!
This new freedom to speak has made him more comfortable interjecting an idea or witty insight to a problem or task that I may be working on, because there is an opportunity for him to have the floor. As a mom of four, a wife, and a secretary, fresh insight is valuable. You never know what a child may come up with or what unique perspective they may have on how to solve a problem, especially if they never get a chance to talk.
“What Gets Us Bent Out of Shape and All Kinked Up”
Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Colossians 3:15
What gets us bent out of shape? You see we can easily get all worked up over nothing. Getting worked up over nothing results in stress, anxiety, worry, anger, resentment, grudges, offenses, distractions, weariness, and exhaustion….what it all boils down to is that when we allow things in our life to steal our peace we can become all “kinked up”! Continue reading →
So the other Sunday, I’m walking out of church, close to pulling my 6 year old Colby by the ear to the car, and I have to ask him for the millionth time why? Why don’t you do what your told? Why did you misbehave in church today? Why Colby won’t you sit still and listen? Why? Why? Why? His response: I just want to have fun mom. Continue reading →